And The Nominees Are
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Best Quote

  • I didn’t know they made bikinis in size fat fuck! - Ashley (ROLB) (34%, 340 Votes)
  • Danger! She smashed the homey! - Ray J’s friends (FTLORJ) (28%, 283 Votes)
  • Can’t they see that I’m not blind, and I really can see? That I’m not dumb? And I’m going to kick their asses - It (ILM2) (19%, 190 Votes)
  • I went to college but thought ‘this is lame, I’ll be a stripper.’ - Ashley (CS3) (16%, 158 Votes)
  • If you are going to date a rock star learn how to fall off the stage, bitch - Ashley (ROLB) (15%, 150 Votes)
  • I feel like a crackhead in the Crack Olympics - It(ILM2) (13%, 134 Votes)
  • You ain’t gonna talk over me; I got surround sound in this motherfucker! - Ki Ki (CS3) (13%, 128 Votes)
  • I would kill you, murder you, merk you - Myammee (ILM2) (11%, 110 Votes)
  • I decided to pick Ice... because I’ve never really sat in the house and talked to him - Saaphyri (ILM2) (10%, 98 Votes)
  • Melissa popped her boob, that’s what you get when you spend $500 on a boob job in Tijuana - Ashley (ROLB) (9%, 92 Votes)
  • Nobody love cash more than stripper... Hello! - Angelique (ILM2) (7%, 75 Votes)
  • I don’t give a fuck about no white people. I don’t give a fuck about no black people. I don’t give a fuck if I got AIDS - IT (ILM2) (7%, 72 Votes)
  • Every man in this world knows everything about you! All they gotta do is turn to page 22! - Kelsey (ROLB) (6%, 64 Votes)
  • Oh my God, I hate kids. I mean, grow up already - Natasha (CS3) (5%, 54 Votes)
  • Fuuuuuuuuuuuck! - The Entertainer (ILM2) (5%, 50 Votes)
  • He bought you boobs, because he didn’t like your old ones -Kayla (BGC3) (4%, 40 Votes)
  • They look like girls but they’re guys. They are kind of cute though. I wouldn’t mind taking them home - Dropout (DOL) (4%, 37 Votes)
  • Don’t all girls get drunk and lay on speed bumps? - Kelsey (ROLB) (3%, 31 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,001

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Worst Epic Fail

  • Buckwild & Saaphyri try to run the clock in the vault - I Love Money 2 (35%, 421 Votes)
  • All of The Entertainer's plans - I Love Money 2 (29%, 346 Votes)
  • Lil Hood's Rap - For The Love Of Ray J (26%, 314 Votes)
  • Shawn is busted by his 'real' girlfriend - Tool Academy (23%, 276 Votes)
  • Nikki raps from the STD paper - Rock of Love Bus (22%, 269 Votes)
  • Daisy sings on the Premiere episode - Daisy Of Love (21%, 258 Votes)
  • Natasha trying to pass as a woman - ROL Bus/CS3 (15%, 187 Votes)
  • It drops his food - I Love Money 2 Finale (12%, 145 Votes)
  • Unique's singing - For The Love Of Ray J (10%, 125 Votes)
  • Cali on the Power Outing - I Love Money 2 (9%, 105 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,213

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Breakout Star

  • Ashley - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (52%, 676 Votes)
  • It - I Love Money 2 (34%, 444 Votes)
  • Danger - For The Love Of Ray J (27%, 342 Votes)
  • Cocktail - For The Love Of Ray J (18%, 228 Votes)
  • Myammee - I Love Money 2 (16%, 202 Votes)
  • Ray J - For The Love Of Ray J (12%, 150 Votes)
  • Amber M - Bad Girls Club 3 (8%, 106 Votes)
  • Shawn - Tool Academy (6%, 83 Votes)
  • Taya - Rock Of Love Bus (5%, 60 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,290

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Worst Hair

  • Bret Michaels - ROL BUS (26%, 362 Votes)
  • 84, 85, 86 - Daisy Of Love (25%, 338 Votes)
  • T-Weed - I Love Money 2 (24%, 334 Votes)
  • Unique - For The Love Of Ray J (18%, 248 Votes)
  • Torch - Daisy Of Love (17%, 237 Votes)
  • Angelique - I Love Money 2 (16%, 216 Votes)
  • DJ Lady Tribe/Nikki - ROL BUS (14%, 193 Votes)
  • Shawn - Tool Academy (13%, 180 Votes)
  • Ashley - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (11%, 152 Votes)
  • Saaphyri - I Love Money 2 (10%, 144 Votes)
  • Matsuflex - Tool Academy (7%, 90 Votes)
  • Cage - Daisy Of Love (6%, 84 Votes)
  • Prancer - I Love Money 2 (5%, 74 Votes)
  • Myammee - I Love Money 2 Reunion (4%, 52 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,376

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Worst Fake Boobs (NSFW links)

  • Angelique - I Love Money 2 (42%, 588 Votes)
  • New York - New York Goes To Work (26%, 356 Votes)
  • Brittaney - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (20%, 285 Votes)
  • Natasha - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (17%, 236 Votes)
  • Taya - Rock Of Love Bus (17%, 235 Votes)
  • Daisy De La Hoya - Daisy Of Love (15%, 214 Votes)
  • Cali - For The Love Of Ray J (14%, 195 Votes)
  • Melissa - Rock Of Love Bus (10%, 145 Votes)
  • Ashley - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (7%, 100 Votes)
  • Farrah - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (7%, 98 Votes)
  • Ashley - Bad Girls 3 (6%, 79 Votes)
  • Prancer - I Love Money 2 (5%, 76 Votes)
  • Feisty - For The Love Of Ray J (4%, 62 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,394

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Best Fake Couple

  • Saaphyri & It - I Love Money 2 (33%, 466 Votes)
  • Buckwild & The Entertainer - I Love Money 2 (30%, 424 Votes)
  • Taya & Bret - Rock Of Love Bus (22%, 315 Votes)
  • Angelique & 20 Pack - I Love Money 2 (19%, 267 Votes)
  • Aida & Shawn - Tool Academy (18%, 249 Votes)
  • Cocktail & Ray J- For The Love Of Ray J (18%, 249 Votes)
  • Danger & Ray J- For The Love Of Ray J (14%, 196 Votes)
  • Jenna & Matsuflex - Tool Academy (13%, 177 Votes)
  • Leilene & Heat - I Love Money 2 (11%, 159 Votes)
  • Margot & Mega - Tool Academy (7%, 96 Votes)
  • Krista & Tommy - Tool Academy (6%, 85 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,410

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Biggest Hot Mess

  • Arian - Tough Love (41%, 619 Votes)
  • Gia - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (32%, 487 Votes)
  • Brittaney - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (32%, 486 Votes)
  • DJ Lady Tribe/Nikki - ROL Bus (27%, 414 Votes)
  • T-Weed - I Love Money 2 (16%, 249 Votes)
  • 84, 85, 86 - Daisy Of Love (14%, 217 Votes)
  • Tamara - I Love Money 2 (12%, 188 Votes)
  • Fab 5 - Bad Girls Club 3 (5%, 77 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,517

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Best Fight

  • Brittanya vs Heather - ROL BUS (29%, 417 Votes)
  • Beverly vs Brittaney - Charm School 3 (27%, 383 Votes)
  • Kelsey vs Natasha - ROL BUS Reunion (22%, 316 Votes)
  • Big Rig vs 12 Pack - Daisy Of Love (19%, 275 Votes)
  • Amber M vs Fab 5 - Bad Girls Club (19%, 267 Votes)
  • Krista vs Tommy - Tool Academy Reunion (15%, 218 Votes)
  • Arian vs Steve - Tough Love (15%, 218 Votes)
  • Ashley vs Marcia - ROL BUS (13%, 191 Votes)
  • Cage vs Flex - Daisy Of Love (12%, 168 Votes)
  • Amber M vs Kayla - Bad Girls Club (10%, 147 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,420

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Biggest Loudmouth

  • Bay Bay Bay - Charm School 3 (48%, 779 Votes)
  • Ki Ki - Charm School 3 (37%, 602 Votes)
  • Buckwild - I Love Money 2 (28%, 449 Votes)
  • The Entertainer - I Love Money 2 (25%, 400 Votes)
  • Saaphyri - I Love Money 2 (24%, 380 Votes)
  • Shawn - Tool Aacademy (10%, 169 Votes)
  • Kayla - Bad Girls Club (6%, 94 Votes)
  • Ailea - Bad Girls Club 3 (6%, 89 Votes)
  • Matsuflex - Tool Academy (5%, 81 Votes)
  • Flipper - Daisy Of Love (3%, 50 Votes)
  • Natasha - Charm School 3/ROL Bus (3%, 46 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,611

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Hottest Male

  • 20 Pack - I Love Money 2 (27%, 350 Votes)
  • Flex - Daisy Of Love (24%, 321 Votes)
  • Buddha - I Love Money 2 (20%, 268 Votes)
  • Ray J - For The Love Of Ray J (20%, 261 Votes)
  • 12 Pack - Daisy Of Love (18%, 234 Votes)
  • Matsuflex - Tool Academy (16%, 204 Votes)
  • Fox - Daisy Of Love (15%, 192 Votes)
  • London - Daisy Of Love (13%, 165 Votes)
  • Tailor Made - I Love Money 2 (10%, 127 Votes)
  • Sinister - Daisy Of Love (8%, 103 Votes)
  • Cage - Daisy Of Love (7%, 94 Votes)
  • Heat - I Love Money 2 (5%, 65 Votes)
  • Rob - Tool Academy (2%, 27 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,316

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Hottest Female

  • Brittanya - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (31%, 542 Votes)
  • Myammee - I Love Money 2 (18%, 318 Votes)
  • Cocktail - For The Love Of Ray J (16%, 285 Votes)
  • Ashley - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (16%, 282 Votes)
  • Risky - Charm School 3 (15%, 263 Votes)
  • Arian - Tough Love (12%, 201 Votes)
  • Danger - For The Love Of Ray J (9%, 152 Votes)
  • Feisty - For The Love Of Ray J (8%, 144 Votes)
  • So Hood - Charm School 3 (7%, 116 Votes)
  • Prancer - I Love Money 2 (7%, 115 Votes)
  • Caviar - For The Love Of Ray J (6%, 112 Votes)
  • Farrah - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (6%, 104 Votes)
  • Jenna - Tool Academy (6%, 96 Votes)
  • Cashmere - For The Love Of Ray J (5%, 95 Votes)
  • Taylor - Tough Love (5%, 89 Votes)
  • Chardonnay - For The Love Of Ray J (5%, 83 Votes)
  • Gia - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (4%, 74 Votes)
  • Leilene - I Love Money 2 (4%, 73 Votes)
  • Beverly - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (4%, 72 Votes)
  • Marcia - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (4%, 68 Votes)
  • MILF - I Love Money 2 (2%, 43 Votes)
  • Ice - I Love Money 2 (2%, 37 Votes)
  • KO - Charm School 3 (2%, 37 Votes)
  • Ashley - Bad Girls 3 (2%, 33 Votes)
  • Angelique - I Love Money 2 (1%, 13 Votes)
  • Ki Ki - Charm School 3 (1%, 11 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,734

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Reality Star Of The Half-Year

  • Ashley - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (34%, 540 Votes)
  • It - I Love Money 2 (27%, 428 Votes)
  • Danger - For The Love Of Ray J (20%, 317 Votes)
  • Myammee - I Love Money 2 (12%, 195 Votes)
  • Tailor Made - I Love Money 2 (12%, 181 Votes)
  • New York - New York Goes To Work (11%, 167 Votes)
  • Arian - Tough Love (10%, 163 Votes)
  • Daisy De La Hoya - Daisy Of Love (10%, 152 Votes)
  • Ray J - For The Love Of Ray J (8%, 131 Votes)
  • Cocktail - For The Love Of Ray J (8%, 119 Votes)
  • Amber M - Bad Girls Club 3 (5%, 85 Votes)
  • Bret Michaels - ROL BUS (5%, 71 Votes)
  • Taylor - Tough Love (4%, 68 Votes)
  • Steve Ward - Tough Love (4%, 65 Votes)
  • Josh & Ashley - Tool Academy (4%, 64 Votes)
  • Shawn - Tool Academy (3%, 40 Votes)
  • DJ Lady Tribe/Nicky - ROL BUS (2%, 26 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,569

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Best Reality Show

  • I Love Money 2 (45%, 701 Votes)
  • Charm School 3* (29%, 446 Votes)
  • Rock Of Love Bus (24%, 371 Votes)
  • For The Love Of Ray J (23%, 352 Votes)
  • Tough Love (16%, 245 Votes)
  • Tool Academy (15%, 231 Votes)
  • Bad Girls Club 3 (14%, 218 Votes)
  • Daisy Of Love* (11%, 177 Votes)
  • New York Goes To Work* (5%, 71 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,560

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Biggest Bitch

  • Ashley - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (44%, 651 Votes)
  • KI KI - Charm School 3 (31%, 456 Votes)
  • Bay Bay Bay - Charm School 3 (24%, 359 Votes)
  • Unique - For The Love Of Ray J (21%, 309 Votes)
  • Buckwild - I Love Money 2 (20%, 290 Votes)
  • Riki Rachtman - Daisy Of Love (16%, 239 Votes)
  • Danger - For The Love Of Ray J (12%, 182 Votes)
  • Ailea - Bad Girls Club 3 (9%, 127 Votes)
  • Brittaney - ROL Bus/Charm School 3 (7%, 99 Votes)
  • Krista - Tool Academy (6%, 96 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,481

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2,041 Responses to “And The Nominees Are”

  1. Ray J and Cocktail were fake to begin with btw ever happen to Taya?

    1. She died.

      1. DAMN lil sis! She died… no lol-ing or J/K-ing! HAHAHA!

        1. jajaja. shes not playing games. lol.

      2. $LMAO!!$

  2. Oh I never liked her anyway I wonder if Bret is taking care of her son

    1. Ha

  3. Would I Be Corey if I didn’t have the latest news?

    Gia is on I Love Money 3.

    It’s in Costa Rica this time around.

    1. Hmm no Mexico fear of swine flu I see

    2. Bless you, o Mighty One!

      I like Gia. But the only ones that are confirmed are her & Pumkin’s saggy ass; interesting!

      I hope Meatball & Atomic Bomb act bad if they go.

      1. $GOOD FIND COREY N ASHLEY SAID SHE GOT A CALL FROM THE PRODUCER$

        1. More Ashley? That’s good!

          1. $YUP! HER N HER SIDEKICK BLONDAURAGE AINT DYIN YET$

      2. Pumkin is going to be on ILM3? You mean her fake engagement wasn’t enough to get people to talk about her still?

        My mind is blown.

        1. $I HOPE WIFEY BOOTZ DOES COME BACK N SINCEER AND OTHERS 2 PUT DAT MAN WALKING CROW FACED CHUNKY OLD LOOKIN FACED BYTCH N HER PLACE$

          1. I’d like to see Sinceer. Maybe she’ll be the “Megan” of I Love Money 3.

            1. I think Bootz would be more of the “Megan” for this season, with Buckeey or Black as the “Brandi C.”.

            2. No offense, but I don’t think Bootz would be smart enough to know how to manipulate people into doing her bidding. I see her as a loud mouth person who just wants to start fights for camera time.

              As for Sinceer, I think she’s kind of conniving, sneaky, and bitchy.

              And drunk.

            3. Prolly. Both of them just need to get their asses on dere to snap on Pumkin and possibly the Blondourage.

            4. Pumkin definitely wont step up to Bootz.

            1. $HXT UGLY A MAN TRANNY WASTE OF SPERM UR PICK?

            2. lol. way 2 age gracefully.

            3. DAMN! DEAD!

            4. $L0L GOOD 1 MASSIE!$

              A HOT AZZ MESS WHORE SLUT TRICK HO USELESS CLUELESS AN STD??

            5. Y’all are killing me!

            6. never!!!

            7. $LOL AURELIUS WE STIL COOL U KNOW MY FEELINGS TOWARD UR THING U CALL A GURL THO$

            8. Bridgette doesn’t look like that anymore. She’s had tons of work done on herself.

            9. And I for one am very glad she did!

      3. I think Kelsey is basically confirmed too. I hope the Blondourage make an appearance on ILM3!

        Also, I hope Meatball & Atomic Bomb aren’t on any ILM. Those would be two completely wasted spots.

        1. they weren’t be totally wasted, someone has to go home first :-)

    3. Wow one more announce. Let’s see if she will be 3-for-3 on not getting pass the first episode.

    4. Good scoop, Corey

  4. is every reality show from now on gonna take place in Costa Rica? is the coke cheaper over there or sumhing?

    im glad Gia is gonna be on it, hopefully 3rd times the charm and she can last longer then 1 episode

    1. doubt it.

      she’ll probably be too wasted for the first round of eliminations.

      Maybe I’ll get a new photo of her for my avatar >:D

      1. WHA…I can’t believe it! Our Gia? Drunk?

        Gia said she’s practicing sobriety on the ROLB reunion! Don’t you believe her?

        1. No, she was trying to save face.

          No one changes after being the way they are after, like what, 30 years?

          Leilen said she wasn’t going to strip anymore…
          Brandi M.an voice still sucks the cock…
          Saap is still a scary ass bitch…

          Who the eff else was supposed to change? I don’t remember because some people on any charm school were not memorable at all.

          Actually most of the reality people aren’t memorable.

          Maybe they should take a page out of Arian’s book and say something cunty to extend whatever delusional fame they have in their head.

          1. THIS!!!!

            AND Saaphyri IS a mufuggin’ scary ass bitch. (Regurgitating @ thought of her feet_)

            But she’s pretty hot in that Afro photoshoot.

          2. I dont say mean stuff… Just out there stuff. I am only somewhat mean to those that attack me first. I wouldnt attack any of you… Unless you kicked my puppy ;)

            1. I love dogs. I wouldn’t dare kick your puppy. What breed of dog do you have?

  5. ummm I don’t know if anyone notices, but swine flu cases are being found in Costa Rica. As I told other Spanish Club members that are going to CR this summer, I would not take my ass down there at this time

  6. I think that besides the whole swine issues, the reason it isnt being done in Mexico is due to the violence dat goin on in the country. Its really so unsafe.

    1. If America ever needed to intervene in the welfare of a foreign nation, Mexico…. nevermind, not getting into that here.

      1. I feel ya baby girl! I feel ya on that but we don’t need to go all political here cuz folks can’t handle it

        1. You got that right! How have you been, Queen Will-Lynn?

          1. LOL! Watching as 38 creeps up on me.

            1. I know; us girls in our mid 30′s are lookin good, tho! U gotta admit!

            2. 30-something is the new 20-something, just smarter! :-)

    2. Damn!

      1. I’m being good Steupz.

        1. Cj, u know ur just a Baaad girl!!!! embrace it!!

          1. 2nd DAMN!

            1. :-)

              well, just a little…

  7. I don’t give a fuck about no white people. I don’t give a fuck about no black people. I don’t give a fuck if I got AIDS – IT

    It’s even funnier when you watch it because he’s punching stuff.

  8. DEAD at Matsuflex voting for himself

    1. Matsu is cool with me. His girl on the show was fake though.

    2. I knew all these noms were voting 4 themselves!! Now i understand how kik got 5 votes for best looking.

  9. It seems like we have more voters than posters *cough*

  10. Also, does Arian know that when we say “hot” mess, we’re not talking about how she looks?

    1. I think she does. I just don’t think she cares.

      1. As Rod said earlier, she is delusional so im pretty sure she has herself believing its an honor.

    2. Umm yea Im not an effing moron I am just a good sport about it!

      1. gtfo, cunt!

        1. wow aren’t you a sweet girl. Do you eat with that mouth?

          1. You are a bad mother. You let your daughter act the way she is. Did she have some daddy issues that went unresolved?

            Did you see yourself on TV? You sat there and said it was Okay to act the way she is.

  11. Angelique is lookin kinda dirty in the pelvic region in that pic, like she don’t wash her crotch or suh n. Did she fuck T Weed? I think that fungus might have spread to her.

  12. jajaja. 2 funnie. Yea,omg, I was thinking d same thing, i was being nice and thinkin it was stubble and shit, but who we kiddin?

  13. $kiki not gonna b on ILM3 SHE SIAD SHE DOESNT WNAT 2!!$

    1. Damn it wouldve been crazy to have possibly her, Bootz, and Sinceer causin all types of hell. Hopefully Bootz will be dere.

      1. $i kno she said on he rkyte becuz dey play her n dont show her n a positive way!$

        1. Dang I meant to get wit u about that! How did the talk w/Bootz go?

          1. $lol she said “I MAY B BACK”$ LOL WIFEY PLAYIN

            1. Him loves his snookums!

            2. $yup number 1 since 06 fol2!!$

            3. $AND DEY MADE CALLS FOR ILM3 MONTHZ AGO! KIKI UNIQUE SAID NO$

            4. Good Unique said no din nobody wanna see her lion-looking fake ass anyway.

            5. U Damn Skippy!

            6. $LOL SO DAMM TRU I CARE LESS BOUT HER FAT AZZ!$

  14. lol did Arian seriously just post here?

    1. Yes; she seems cool. Misunderstood, even. I always thought she was might have a background we have no clue about.

      1. “Was” does not belong in that sentence

  15. I never really watched Tough Love, but was she the one that left to get help or something like that?

    1. not exactly… watch this ep

      http://www.vh1.com/video/play.jhtml?id=1609885

  16. She never left, she got booted. It’s obvious she deals with abandonment issues as stated by many after watching the show. There’s a reason she’s never been in a relationship for longer than 2 weeks.

    Not that everyone’s perfect, but she’s just a little more screwed up than most. Just my 2 cents.

    1. How’ve u been Rod1mustransformer?

      1. I’ve been good CJ. Who’d you vote for in the Best Quote category?

    2. After reading her first blog, you know, cause I thought I shouldn’t be so judgmental, she is fucking screwed up.
      (I really think she exaggerated of lot of the blog she wrote anyways.)

      It’s obvious to me that she seeks any attention (good or bad) and that she has some issues that she needs to deal with. As I was reading it, it was very clear that her problems were self created and I don’t know whether I should feel immense pity for her or roll my eyes.

      I don’t even know why she would even put herself on TV knowing how screwed up she made herself. Fame for the sacrifice of dignity? Whatever floats her boat.

      1. If you happened to watch the show, it was only obvious she tried to save face in her blogs. It’s funny because everyone on Tough Love agreed something was/is wrong with her.

        Hmmmmmmmm… could all those people be wrong?!

        1. 100 guys in a lifetime is a bit much…

          Um, sliver lining hmm…oh i got one: I bet child labor for her would be a cake walk. Hell, the poor baby would just slip on out.

          1. DEAD!

    3. Not never… Just in the last year and a half. I have had a 3 year relationship, 1 year and 6 months. I was with a guy that cheated on me and beat me up for over a year.. YES that contributed to some trust issues.

      1. Arian, I apologize what I said earlier…

      2. I can’t sleep.

        You know, you are a fun-loving person. Some might mistake it for being slutty, but I honestly don’t see you like that. The things I say on this board have made many a blogger blush, so I did tone it down. But it’s all in fun. So I know where you’re coming from.

        You were involved in a bad relationship, and that can cause self-esteem and trust issues; very true. But you’re stronger for it, and you know what you DON’T want in a man now because of that experience. You’re not fucked up, you’re not a slut, etc. You’re just human. I want to meet one perfect person in my life. Then I’ll believe that my faults & flaws are horrible. I own my flaws. I love who I am. And you do too, it just takes a while (and a few more fucked up relationships-lol) for us to realize how cool we are.

        1. I am kind of embarassed that the only girl from a Reality show I watch from my area, is such a slut….I would say Arian probably lives within 30 minutes of me or maybe a little more being she goes to Alive at Five and things of that nature…..

  17. I feel you. I confuse her with that other girl, I don’t know her name though.
    How did you like the game today?:D

  18. Boo Lakers. Boo.

    1. You know that song “Cleveland Rocks”?

      It’s a lie!

  19. I hate them too! Rod likes them though:/
    I still wish the Cavs were in it though, the series would probably be better then this one.

    1. It was okay. Lakers lost but they’ll win the series. All we have to do is win one more at Orlando and it forces the Magic to have to beat us twice in L.A.. When you put it that way, there’s no way Orlando can win the series.

      Don’t hate me because I live in L.A.
      Hate me because I’m beautiful.

  20. OMG I can’t be seeing this; J Work I’m about to hit u up on myspace look for me

  21. so how we kno pumpkin ganna b on ilm3! i wanted kiki on there and boots

    1. Somebody confirmed it a while back; don’t know who. And until somebody tells me different ima jus believe that Bootz is on dere.

      1. o okay lol so now gia is confirmed 2?

        1. Yup corey confirmed her earlier so I think its Pumkin, Kelsey, and Gia so far.

          1. coo coo thanks

        2. $YUP THEY ASKED KIK1 N SHE SAID NO
          $

          1. why she say no? howd u kno?

            1. $HE SAID IT ON HER KYTE SHE SAID BECAUSE SHE DOESNT WANT 2!$

          2. o okay lol

            1. $LOL SHE SHOULD JUST DO IT THEN END IT$

      2. dey dnt really need pumpkin back do they??? lol

  22. Flavor of Love 2 is on; da ep where New York just came back and the whole photo shoot thing.

  23. I would like to see Candace Cabrera (Black) on I love Money 3 (Hello 51 minds ;) ).

    I thought she was gorgeous.

    1. Agreed. Very exotic.

    2. hell yea they shud put her on there and sinceer

      1. $WITH MY BOOTZ N SO HOOD N BAY 2 DA HARD WAY L0L$

        1. Bootz/Buckeey/Black/BayX3/So Hood/Sinceer v.s. Pumkin,the Blondourage w/Brittanya, and Kelsey.

          Sh!t would be epic.

  24. Bourgy fam, I love each & every one of you. Some say you can’t be close to people you’ve never met in person, some might even say it’s impossible to have a life when you’re that close to people on a blog.

    I’m here to tell you that’s bullshit.

    And fuck everybody that feels different.

    I’m going to bed. All of you be safe. Love you all. I’ll tell you every day I sign on, because TOMORROW IS NOT PROMISED.

  25. J Work

    1. $YA I WROTE U BACK ON DA SPACE$

  26. I’m about to say something tonight.

    Live for today, because tomorrow is not promised.

    I’m going to bed. I love all y’all, whether we agree or disagree.

    And a Fuck You to anybody that says you can’t be close to people you meet on a blog, I got girlfriends I have grown up with, and I feel closer to some of you than I do some of them. Real talk.

    Have a good night. Be safe. And if you care about someone, say that shit, don’t hold it in. You don’t know if that person will be around for you to say it later.

    1. thats so true! nite CJ

    2. Im really sorry for your loss… You can certainly be close to someone you have never physically met. Sometimes it is easier to tell a “stranger” things you would never tell anyone else. I hope your friend is in a better place.. I lost my Dad suddenly a little over a week ago… I will pray tonight that he meets your friend on the other side!

      1. Bless you; thank you Arian. And my prayers go out to you & your mother. And I’m glad you said that. We’re all very close here, it got crazy for a minute but that’s how “family” can be sometimes.

        Your father had to be a very proud man. You’re a beautiful person. Don’t let anyone tell you different.

        1. Her father loved her very much!!! He passed some amazing qualities to her and I see him in her in many ways. I know he wants her to pursue her dreams and not to sit around. We are a positive thinking family that loves to laugh and make jokes.

          Yes Arian, daddy is smiling at you and you know that proud look on his face…… He has it right now!

          Arian is a strong girl with an amazing heart and she knows what she wants and goes after it! What more could he ask for.

      2. Thank you, Arian. You are right. It is much easier to tell a stranger something, than people you know for fear of judgment or whatever.

        I’m sorry for your loss, as well. I bet they’re up there partying and laughing at all of us mopes.

        1. Thank you Arian for your kind words!!! This I think showed us that we can’t take life or the ones we love for granted! We have to tell our loved ones that we love them every single day because you never know when something unexpected like this will happen! Part of me think about the people who died on 9/11…what if a couple got in an argument and the wife told her husband she hated him before he left for work…then hours later she finds out the he died? How would she feel knowing those were her last words to her husband?

          Words…mean…every…thing!!! You may be mad at your loved ones, but just remember, that love you have for them goes deeper than the anger.

          1. ia.

            I feel all depressed now. This really affected me… makes you think about your own family and friends. =/

            1. I feel the same way.

            2. That’s why I try to say I love you to all of my friends every chance I get; I don’t know what life has in store for us.

              No one is promised tomorrow, and it is scary.

          2. Beautifully worded, Khicago. I love you.

            1. Love you too!

          3. That’s why I always tell my BF and my parents I love them before they leave or before hanging up the phone.

            1. I still can’t stop crying.

            2. I cried for the first time in a long time. I keep alot of things in and lately i’ve been wanting to cry, to get it all out but I wasn’t able to…but hearing about this made me break down. I thought about Kandace and her life, I thought about my loved ones and how i’ll feel if something happened to them, and I thought about the 9/11 victims who called their loved ones and told them they were gonna die and how I would feel making that call…

              I cried for me…I cried for Kandy…and I cried for those who can’t!

      3. Sorry about your dad, Arian. Blessings to him and your family.

        Are you gunna be a Bourgy regular?

      4. I’ll keep your dad, you and your family in my prayers too. Best of luck to you guys too!

        1. Thank you Bobo. I know I will take all the prayers I can get. I know some of my strength comes from them!

          1. You seem like very kind hearted people. I may just have to be a regular on bourgy. I am a self admitted blog addict as is my mother LOL. Its fun to exchange ideas with people on similar interests… Even if their interest lies in hating me sometimes ;) Thank you all for your prayers for my family… EVERY SINGLE ONE HELPS! Try to never say goodbye to someone you care about on a bad note even when you are angry.. Tomorrow is not a promise and today is a gift… Now is all we have for certain so embrace it!

            1. We’d love to have you. I’ll gladly pray for your father when I pray for KG.

              PS: I don’t hate you, Arian. <3 I thought you were a frickin’ riot.

          2. Welcome to the Fam! And Arian, that was beautiful.

  27. I want:

    Pumkin
    Bootz (Who doesn’t?)
    Black
    Sinceer
    Jes (ROL)
    The 3 Blondetorage
    Danger
    Cocktail or Chardonnay
    BayX3
    Corn Fed
    London
    Flex
    FOXeeyyy
    Wolf
    Pretty
    Rico
    Mr. Wise

  28. I hate to post this and be the bearer of bad news, but, Kandygurle passed away in a car accident today. (which is what CJs post is reffering to above me.)

    RIP Kandygurle, for real. She was a beautiful woman, inside and out, regardless of anything she’s done. She was a wonderful girl and I hope she’s up in heaven looking over all of us.

    Real talk, KG was a great girl and I know I’ll miss her on here. I love you Kandace, you’ll always be my girl. Always. (since I think they have internet in heaven.)

    Steupz, I think a memorial post is in order.

    1. I love you Jess. Thank you.

      1. No problem. I love you too. I’m in shock. Not gonna lie, I’m in tears right now. Some of yall might think that’s stupid since I didn’t know her IRL, but she knew shit about me that practically nobody knows… She always had an ear to listen and a shoulder to cry on. I really will miss her.

        1. I’m about to say some real shit right now.

          All these mufuckers that feel like they can first time comment about what the fuck we feel, FUCK YOU. That lady was my heart, and yes she did know a lot of things about me that I wouldn’t tell people I see every day. She was a very beautiful person, not just because she was pretty, but she was sincere, honest, sweet, kind, didn’t care if I was just rambling on, she was always there to make me feel like someone was actually listening to me. Love you pretty lady, miss you already, and I’ll say a prayer for your family to have the strength to get through this hard time.

          1. You took every word out of my mouth.

            I don’t pray, or believe, but I’m gonna pray tonight.

            1. I know how you guys feel. I know a few people who I’ve met online that became one of my close friends. Online friendships may seem ‘dumb’, but they’re actually the ones you feel more open and comfortable with. There’s a lot amazing people out there online…

              But yeah, I’m sorry for both of guys’ lost. She seemed like such a sweetheart.

          2. KG was one of the originals and should be given a proper send off!

            1. You’re right.

            2. $AGREED!$

            3. Yes.

              I sent Steupz an email about a memorial post, since I believe he went to bed already. Hoping he checks his email in the morning.

    2. I’m so sorry to hear that. She seemed really sweet on these blogs.
      I wish her family nothing but solace and strength.

    3. awwwwwwwww r u serious thats krazy life is never promised thats really sad and caught me off gaurd

      im so sorry 2 hear this

      i hope she rests well in opeace

    4. Kandace I remember your first post was “Khicago I love you!” I loved you too!!! I know we weren’t exactly “close close” but we were still very good friends!!! I miss you and just want to tell you that I love you!!! This is very shocking news!!!! I know you’re up in heaven right now, but I just wish & hope you could see these messages that Jess & I left you!!!

      I love you Kandace!!! You will be missed by me and the rest of bourgy!

    5. Holy shit, didn’t she just post like yesterday? Where did you find this out, CJ?

      RIP. God bless, KG.

      1. Yeah, she did.

        Her cousin updated her Myspace status saying she died in a car accident today.

        1. This is so sad. It gives me chills, actually. Death really scares me… I hope she’s happy and at peace…

          Jess, I know you effing hate me, but when are you coming back? I really missed your posts.

          1. Me too.. I talked to her legit yesterday.. And looking at her comments is a comment from me from like.. a day ago, and then all these RIP comments.

            I think I’m back now. It really fucking sucks that something as horrible as this had to happen for me to come back…. I just couldn’t sit here and watch everyone post because I know not many people knew, as only a few of us were on her myspace.

            1. That is very depressing…

              How old was she?

            2. 26.

            3. 26-ish. It’s a damn shame.. She has so much more life to live.

            4. According to her myspace, 26. So young! :(

      2. On MySpace. Her cousin put in the update.

        Lil sis, I am so hurt inside right now.

        1. $RIP U WIL B MISSED SO SORRY 4REAL!$

    6. Damn… That’s so sad. =( I’ll say a prayer for her and her family. A real shame too, she seemed like a genuinely sweet person.

  29. OMG this is tragic news. Do you have any more info on this jess? How did you find out?

    I can’t believe this. Someone you are posting with last week or a few days ago and now they are gone. Oh God this is so nbelievable.

    Let us know jess when you get more info. My heart and prayers goes out to her family.

    1. I’m gonna do a google search for newspaper articles and stuff, which probably won’t be out until later. She died today, in a car accident, which is about all I know.

      I found out on her Myspace. Her cousin updated her status.

      1. o okay let us kno if u find anything

        1. Of course.

          1. A friend is a friend. It does not matter what connects you, be it the internet, or your memories. Feeling for ya’ll.

            1. IAWTC.

  30. Sorry to hear about this. Wish I could of said something nice to her while she was still here. Take it easy KG.

    1. Hey, Mussy.

      1. Hey.

        1. Whatcha doin’?

          1. Just thinking about things. If you want to chat, hit me up here:
            guyblue555@yahoo.com (it’s my spam account)

            1. Alright…

            2. That goes for anyone else as well. Feel free to talk about anything on your mind.

            3. I’ll send you something right now.

            4. The fuck, Rod. It wouldn’t let me log in.

            5. I keep having to sign in every couple of minutes.

            6. Okay, hold up.

            7. Sent.

  31. OMG!!!!

    So Kandygurle (Kandace) died??? :(

    My prayers go to all her family…

  32. Everyone, I’m going to go to bed if I have to force myself to go to bed.
    You all mean so much to me in your own ways. You all are going to be heavy on my mind tonight, and I love you all very much. Jess, I am so glad to see you back, To both Lil Sis & Jess, you both mean the world to me, and I’m glad you can talk to each other without using the dictionary of foul language toward each other. I just wish KG could see it; that would make her day. Khicago, my bff, I know you’re taking this hard but Moofie Loves You & will always ride 4 u. Baby Bruh J Work, stay gutta; love that. Arian, I enjoyed meeting you, and I hope you come back to visit. All of you, Bobo, Rod1mus, Sway=my new friend*, Terrell, Joann, Soul of Mana (even though you don’t post much, but I enjoy when you do), and everyone that isn’t posting right now, I love all of you. Good night.

    1. I love you Cj!!!

    2. $LOVE U CJ N EVERY1 ELSE I DAT I FUCKZ WITH DA LONGWAY!$

  33. @ Rod1mus….I sent you an email from my AOL account but for some reason I didn’t see it in my “sent” mail so I sent you another one from my Yahoo account. Thanks for letting me say what was in my heart. I do appreciate it.

    To everyone else on the Board thanks for being here for each other. steupz, Khi, EA, CJ, Veronica, Jess, Bobo, J-Works, Massie, Aurelius, Corey, Sway and any of the regulars I missed and to all the “newbies” have a good night and much love to you all. I think this has been eye-opening for all of us…just wish it could have been another way.

    1. I received it, thank you.

  34. wow thats horrible. why her i dont understand

  35. i confuse myself sometimes trying to figure life out but i just end up getting more confused. theres alot of bad people out there. but it really makes u appreciate the good/ do what you want to do and be happy ..

  36. sometimes its really hard though.. espcially after i watched this movie on youtube called esoteric agenda. and it shows how horrible the people are who run the world and cause us problems will health care debt .. but at the end it has a good point.

  37. Rod, the computer just turned off. Hold on.

  38. It keeps turning off, so scew this, I’mma go to sleep.

    1. NIte, charge your laptop.

  39. Wow…I am speechless right now..I was no able to log on to the computer last night because of my hubby WOW addiction, but when I logged into facebook and myspace I seen all the messages about Kandance…I am soo sorry for her loss and the loss her family and friends are feeling. To all of you on here who were friends with her “off Bourgy” my heart goes out to ya’ll.

    I love all ya’ll even if I don’t speak everyday..I am here everyday reading and lurking…take care of yourselves..and be safe…you really just never know…

    1. It is very sad. Even though I didn’t personally know her, when I was a “lurker”, I saw that KG had some of the funniest posts, and she seemed to be a very nice person who accepted all types of people. Tomorrow really isn’t promised.

  40. Uh last night I cried my eyes out for like 2 hours over personal shit (nobody I know died so it wasn’t about that). But now I wake up and read about all this death and people dying. I can’t take it right now. I’ll try to come back later when I feel better.

    1. I am sorry “matic…I would send you a virtual hug, but I don’t think you are a hug type of person.

      I hope you day gets better.

    2. We love you, ‘Matic. Hope ya feel better.

  41. I am single now

    “So most of you have seen photos floating around with me and a guy who is obviously not Ray. Some of you have been asking questions about who I am dating, is it Ray? or this person or that person and I want to clear some things up.

    When I was on the show, I truly fell for Ray. I invested my time, effort, and emotions into him and wanted things to work. But the reality of reality television is that it doesn’t always work. Ray and I are no longer together. We have not been together for awhile now but we have remained friends and when we hang out we have a great time. I miss him very much and respect what decisions he has made. He is a really cool person and someone I feel connected with for sure but aside from that, I can’t say.

    As for the tour we just did and “acting” like we were together, it comes with the show. What people saw of us on tour was real. When we are together we have a cool chemistry. We have fun and enjoy each others company. But at the end of the day I wasn’t the right person for Ray and although it hurt me at least he was honest about the situation before it went any further.

    I do want to end this on a positive note, I am happy. I am having fun, living life and doing me. I have a lot of projects coming up and you will see a lot more of me for sure.”

    Love you guys! xoxo

    Joanna Hernandez
    aka “Cocktail”

  42. It makes me really sad that Kandygurle passed away.
    I did not know her personally but she seemed like a very kind hearted person.
    I’m sorry to all of you that are hurting.
    Rest in Peace KG. I will pray for you.

  43. Oh wow.

    Just unbelievable. This is sad.

  44. Wow! KG was from the Basy Area wasn’t she? Anyone know for sure? I would like to send a card to her family. I know it’s not much but it is the thought and to let them know that she did touch people’s lives

    1. Originally.
      Then I believe she moved to Texas, which I’m not 100% on if she was still there when she died. Last time we talked about that, I believe she was living on Colorado or some other mountain state like that.

  45. Enigmatic Anon, this is not easy 4 me either. But if you need me, I’m here; I check my email regularly.

    And for anyone that wants my email address, I will post this one, email me yours & I’ll give u my real email address.

    christna_s@yahoo.com

    1. I don’t really want to talk to anybody. I’m ok now.

      1. I understand. But seriously, if you want it, it’s there. I’m glad you’re better. I’m still not, but I will be.

  46. I don’t post regularly but Kandygurle’s passing is such terrible and horrifying news; my thoughts are with her family and friends, on and off of this blog.

    Whatever dreams or goals any of you may have, DON’T put them off for any reason because you never know when you’re gonna go.

  47. Um , wow .. I’m speechless right now . I just read CJ’s message on myspace and I have chills ever since . This is just unbelievable ! I didn’t really know her , but damn , I feel so sad . My thoughts are with her family and friends, on and off of this blog.

  48. YNWA, I feel you.

    Anyone, if u just need to ramble or just even say hi, even if you’re not big on posting, you know how to reach me. I sincerely don’t mind, it’s ok.

  49. Hey guys, I got some more info.

    It was a one vehicle accident. Police think she lost control of her car, broke the barrier, and landed in the water near Lake Ray Hubbard in Dallas, TX on I-30. Nobody witnessed the accident, and a passerby only saw smoke coming from the water. Her family is trying to figure out if foul play was involved.

    CJ – About what we talked about, I’ll have the address as soon as her mother decides what funeral home she’ll be at.

    1. Omg, dat just brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much Jess for keepin us updated. I know some of us werent as close 2 her as others, but the circumstances of her death are just so sad, that it affects every1.

  50. hey ervy1. I just read all that occured last night. I am without words. I really cant believe it, as I was reading her posts yesterday. Im here for any1 who needs a shoulder 2 lean on. I have come 2 really care for many of u guys, and I am so deeply saddened.

    1. dang this is all really sad . RIP kandy

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